Friday, November 15, 2019
How to be productive when your life is in chaos
How to be productive when your life is in chaos How to be productive when your life is in chaos In a perfect world, everything is steady. You can make plans that actually come true 100% of the time. You can anticipate things in advance.But as you and I both know, thatâs not how life works.In real life, a single random (and unexpected) event can suddenly screw up all your plans, goals, and good intentions to make a change. Think of ⦠A family member who passes away. Getting pregnant. Getting into a car accident. A calamity at work that causes bankruptcy. Falling in love. Unplanned events can disrupt everything. Iâve experienced that several times in my life. And thereâs nothing you can do to prevent unexpected events.To be clear, when I talk about chaos, Iâm not talking about adverse events. Sometimes, good things can also disrupt our focus. Life can be unpredictable.And despite that unpredictability, we still have to function. We must wake up, treat the people in our lives with respect, do our work, and find inner calm. The way I see it, we have two choices. We accept that life is chaos and find a way to adapt ourselves. We refuse to adapt and become miserable because âlife is hard.â To me, itâs a no-brainer. I choose the former. But how do you adapt when life is uncertain? How do you still manage to be productive when you canât even catch your breath before you have to deal with the next thing?Here are 3 tips that can help you with those challenges.1. Stay focused on your tasksWhen something important interrupts your life, itâs easy to develop tunnel vision. Before you know it, your whole life can be consumed by something random. Letâs say you fall in love with someone.And all of a sudden you canât think of anything else but that person. You canât focus on your work. You forget about your friends. You donât go to the gym anymore. You just want to spend time with that person.Even though itâs great to be in love, thereâs more to life.Sure, enjoying today matters. But we canât allow ourselves to forget where we are going in life. We canât neglect our work, family, friends, and health- under any circumstances.To stay focused and not give up my ideals, I keep reminding myself of why I do what I do. I do that through daily journaling. No matter how hectic your life is, you can always find 10 minutes to sit down and reflect. No excuses.Plus, I keep looking at my goals almost every day. That reminds me of where I want to go. And when you know where you want to go, youâll keep going. Itâs as simple as that.Want to hear more tips about staying focused during chaotic times? Listen to my latest podcast episode about it.2. Work in short burstsAlways be prepared to get work done. Every time you have a moment to yourself, donât play with your phone, but instead, squeeze in some work. Even if itâs only 8 minutes.I bring my laptop and notebook with me wherever I go. Those two things are always by my side. When my life lacks structure, I whip out the laptop at any free moment I have.Doesnât matter what time it is, where I am, or how long I can work- when I get the chance, I work.But working in short bursts is not that easy. After all, you canât truly focus. In a perfect world, you have hours of time blocked for a single important task. Thatâs how you do deep work.Working in short bursts only works if you know what you have to do (Step 1).Thatâs why I always keep a long list of things that I have to do. So when I work in short bursts, I know that I canât waste my time browsing the internet or thinking, âWhat should I do next?âThe process is simple. I grab my laptop, look at my list, and pick one thing that I feel like doing at that time. My list consists of essential tasks. So it doesnât matter which task gets done first.For example, this is about the ninth time (I lost count) Iâm working on this article. My life has no structure right now. But thatâs okay. I still write my articles.Remember: Your goal is not to work like this forever. When youâve weathered the storm, get back to your regular routines.3. Fuel yourselfLife can be demanding. You need proper fuel to handle the phys ical and mental stress that you endure.Iâm no diet expert. But I am an expert on my personal diet. Usually, Iâm not a fan of trial and error. But when it comes to dieting, itâs my go-to strategy.Iâve tried many different diets and eating patterns. I currently eat mostly protein and unsaturated fat as my first meal, which is around 11:30am. In other words, I skip breakfast.Thatâs what they call intermittent fasting these days. Thereâs nothing new about that. People have been skipping breakfast for ages.Look, I canât give you diet recommendations because itâs different for every person. But I can share a few things you should consider: Donât believe everything you read from the health industry. Everybody has something to sell (Iâm not only talking about products but also ideas). Distinguish the difference between eating patterns (when you eat, how often, etc.) and diets (the type of foods you consume like protein, fat, carbs). Be careful with experimentation. Only try things that are NOT harmful to your body (donât starve yourself, donât try weird diets like eating red meat only). Keep notes on how you feel after what food you eat. Exclude things from your diet that make you feel bad. Thatâs how Iâve found the ideal foods and eating pattern for me. For example, I eat rice every evening. I love it. Without eating rice, I get hungry very quickly and donât feel as sharp. Should I stop eating rice because some random internet person says so? No, of course not.Finding structure in chaosIn the past, I hated uncertainty. I think thatâs something you learn as you grow up. âGet a safe job!â, is what people say.But they donât tell you that a safe job will ultimately make you lazy and weak. Why? Because youâre safe.Jordan Peterson said it best in 12 Rules For Life: An Antidote to Chaos:âOrder is not enough. You canât just be stable, and secure, and unchanging, because there are still vital and important new things to be learned.âOn the other hand, uncertainty forces action.Thatâs why Iâve grown to love uncertainty. It forces me to find solutions to every challenge I face.And once you live your life that way, you canât even function properly with out challenges. When youâve reached that stage, know that youâre actually safe.This article first appeared on Darius Foroux.
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